Tuesday 19 June 2012

What is Your Story? - How can you STAND OUT?


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You Can Have it All

On June 5th, 2012 I attended a conference called The Art of Leadership  and wanted to share with you some of the brilliance I heard from speakers that stood out.  There were SO many fabulous insights and if you want to know even more please contact me!


 Marcus blew me away! This is one of the geniuses behind the StrengthsFinder test. I was mesmerized by his presentation on how to STAND OUT- a new algorithm that describes who you are and how best you can lead.

His ideas were simple and valuable:

       What is your story?  What is the narrative that you say lead you to your (professional) position today? The more clear and coherent you are the more people remember
       IT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION YOU CAN ASK YOURSELF.
       Authenticity is your most precious commodity
       In leadership we teach concepts and LEADERS catch moments of excellence on HOW THEY DO IT….the technique/concept is not the most important thing.
       According to his new algorithm there are 9 ways people lead…I have included a link if you want to know more.
       FASCINATING WORK!


I strongly urge ALL OF YOU to watch her TEDTalk on the Power of Introverts, now a NY Times Best Seller.

As an extrovert I was deeply humbled by her research, and realized not only do I need to operate differently in my role but I also need to integrate practices that allow me to obtain the POWER of introverts.

Her ideas:

       1 out 3 ppl are extroverts
       Dr. Suess, JK Rowling and the the co-creater of Google are all introverts; Facebook creater Mark Z chose Cheryl S because of her extrovert qualities he does not have…good to have a mixture on teams.
       We believe the most charismatic leaders have the best ideas because in our society we value characteristics of extroverts.
       We are most creative when we are alone, brainstorming diminishes creative because as a group we fear rejection from the ‘extroverts’ who often dominate the discussion
       No such things as a pure introvert.
TIPS FROM SUSAN CAIN
·      Abolish meetings every Tuesday
·      Design office spaces mindfully ( i. e Pixar
·      Make meetings as structured as possible. Ask everyone to write down there ideas..online interactions, brainstorm electronically.
·      Hire and promote more thoughtfully

Leonard Brody ( THE BEST OF THE DAY!)
Two Time Emmy Nominee & Bestselling Author, Innovation Nation
The Myth of Generations

Okay, TOO much to write about him. If you would like to know more, come and see meJ  The clip above will give you a snippet of what we heard.

Wow.

His ideas were on the internet, social media, education and my favourite: Innovation in Education:

       We have produced more data now than we have in the last 3000 years
       Human behavior used to change over a long period of time; Government etc would change our behaviors
       Now, humans benings have changed more than the last  12-15 years that in any other period in human history.
       Technologically has fundamentally altered our behavior over the last decade
       We are not the same people
       We don't fit in here anymore
       30 min there was 3.5 million status updates when Sydney Crosby scored the goal in the 2008 Winter Olypmics...mostly women over the age of 40!!
       Bahvirourlly we are focused on sharing the events of our lives with others...
       We are the guinea pigs....
       The world is spinning faster. Time is changing it is shrinking.
       We spend 2 billion dollars a year on buying shoes online; eBay largest auto selling company in the world; by 2014 of all North American wedding 50% will be from online dating sites.
       2/3 of our work day is from our virtual self- WHICH IS SIGNIFICANLY different from our true self.
       We are 3 times more trusting online that in person if you are on FB it's 4 times
       Internet has rewritten the code on human relationships
       Human relationships has expanded.
       The larger your social graph/social network is online the more success you will reap and you are statistically more happier ( Dr. Bokshi study)
       Our brains work now on transactional memory, finding an answer vs. knowing the answer
       ASK ME about the PEBBLE WATCH story


Hope this not only gives you food for thought, but inspires you to both think and act differently in your roles to achieve the goals you have for yourself as a Limitless Woman!


Yasmin
limitlesswomen.ca

Wednesday 13 June 2012

Women of Influence - Lessons from Lisa Lisson

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Recently I attended the Women of Influence Luncheon Series with Lisa Lisson President of FedEx Canada (#8 company in Canada) who shared her incredible story of courage, tenacity, leadership and my favourite motherhood.

Lisa suddenly became a single mother of four when her husband suffered of a heart attack in the middle of the night, he survived for two years after the incident before he passed away; and during that time she made it her commitment to make a happy life for her children. Harder than you think, but her insights on how to live your best life through this adversity was remarkable. Although it is not new what she shared, it is always good to be reminded, and hearing how she used these rules to get to where she is was the learning for me-esp as a mother.

Here is her top 5 Things to Do to achieve Personal and Professional Success:

1.  Control and Influence
  • Work to Train Your Mind
  • Positive Affirmation
  • Why worry about things beyond your control YOU have control what you make of what life gives you
  •  Make challenges into opportunities
2.        Get Mentors

  • Meet with a mentor once a month/once a week
  • Talk about your goals, visualize, discuss ways to achieve your goals

3.      Power of Gratitude and Kindness

  • Each morning her children wake up saying” Today is going to be a great day”
  • You can always find a reason to smile
  • She asks her kids to do 5 random acts of kindness PER DAY.

4.     Balance ME Time

  • Take 3 hours out of your week/weekend for YOURSELF, rejuvenate
  • 5.     Surround yourself with things that inspire you
     

    • Keep quotes in your phone, on your desk in your home that inspire you
    • When you are at your lowest moments, what are the things that can pick you up? 
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